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Love is in the air! Are you looking to find that special someone? Knowing how to flirt can help you with that. It's one way to show your interest in someone and can even be used to start conversations.

Here you'll find lots of useful phrases that you can use to flirt with someone. Try using them the next time you're out in town and hoping to find someone special!

Phrases for Flirting

Flirting can be difficult, but these phrases will make your life easier! Use them to show your interest in someone and to start conversations.
German German English English
Du hast ein tolles Lächeln.
I love your smile.
Du hast einen richtig coolen Style.
You have a great sense of style.
Hat dir schon mal jemand gesagt, dass du wunderschöne Augen hast?
Has anyone ever told you that you have lovely eyes?
Darf ich dich zu einem Getränk einladen?
May I buy you a drink?
Bist du vergeben?
Are you seeing anyone?
Bist du Single?
Are you single?
Könnte ich deine Nummer haben?
Could I get your number?
Benutzt du Instagram?
Do you use Instagram?
Bist du auf Instagram?
Are you on Instagram?
Willst du mit mir ausgehen?
Do you want to go on a date with me?

Responding to Flirting

Have you ever been unsure how to respond to someone flirting with you? Below, you'll find different ways to do this. Use them to show either your interest or disinterest in someone!
German German English English
Es tut mir leid, aber ich bin nicht interessiert.
I'm sorry, but I'm not interested.
Ich bin vergeben.
I'm already seeing someone.
Ich hatte eine schöne Zeit mit dir.
I had a great time with you.
Du bist so lustig.
You're so funny.
Lass uns doch Nummern tauschen.
Let's exchange numbers.
Wir sollten mal was miteinander machen.
We should get together again sometime.
Ich würde mich gerne irgendwann einmal mit dir treffen.
I'd love to meet up again sometime.
Ich würde dich wirklich gerne wiedersehen.
I'd really like to see you again.
Es hat mir wirklich Spaß gemacht, mit dir zu sprechen.
I really enjoyed talking to you.
Bitte lass mich in Ruhe.
Please leave me alone.
Verschwinde!
Get lost!

Relax while Listening to the Phrases

Keep calm and learn German! Listen to the phrases again with relaxing background music. This will help you improve your listening skills and remember the phrases. Choose your favorite style, then kick back and relax!


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Practice & Record an Everyday Conversation

Take the next step and use what you’ve learned! Check out this topic’s dialogue unit and practice the phrases in a variety of exercises. Test your knowledge and get ready for real life conversations!
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Hat dir schon einmal jemand gesagt, dass du ein wunderschönes Lächeln hast?en
Ja, das habe ich schon einmal gehört.en
Ich habe es von der anderen Seite des Raums aus bemerkt. Wie gefällt dir die Party?en

Answers to the Most Common Questions

What are the most essential German phrases to know when flirting?
  • Darf ich dich zu einem Getränk einladen?
    May I buy you a drink?
  • Bist du vergeben?
    Are you seeing anyone?
  • Willst du mit mir ausgehen?
    Do you want to go on a date with me?
  • Es tut mir leid, aber ich bin nicht interessiert.
    I'm sorry, but I'm not interested.
  • Ich bin vergeben.
    I'm already seeing someone.
  • Ich hatte eine schöne Zeit mit dir.
    I had a great time with you.
  • Wir sollten mal was miteinander machen.
    We should get together again sometime.
  • Bitte lass mich in Ruhe.
    Please leave me alone.
When is it appropriate to flirt in German-speaking countries?
Flirting can sometimes be a bit tricky. How you flirt and whether it's appropriate to do so, is different depending on your culture and the individual you're speaking to. What might be okay for one person, could be taken wrongly by someone else. So, pay attention to who you're speaking with and whether they feel comfortable or not. Most importantly: be respectful! If someone says they're not interested, then they're not interested.

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